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I encourage everyone to watch this video of quotes from Gerard, whether you like My Chemical Romance or not. This is why they are my heroes.

It’s for everyone who’s ever felt depressed

or hurt

or rejected

or treated like an outsider

for being different.

Some of Gerard’s words from the video:

● Nothing is worth hurting yourself over. NOTHING is worth taking your life over.

● The difference we wanna make is, number one, to make these kids know that they’re not alone, that they’re actually not that messed up and that they can do whatever they want… And really just to get people to get over their stuff so they can live.

● It’s more important to keep yourself alive, there’s nothing worth even hurting yourself over… It’s normal, it’s completely normal to be depressed.

● I mean, we started this band thinking the world was extremely ugly. And I think now we realize that it’s more beautiful than we thought.

● So if anything, you can take it from a guy and his band who used to think everything was shit. And we’ve found that it’s not.

And from me:

You are never, ever alone. There are people out there who will understand you. You just have to reach out. Don’t shut yourself out, don’t take it out on other people by hurting them, and definitely never take your own life. You just have to keep living, and be kind, and be yourself — and you’ll find that despite how terrible the world can be, it can be really beautiful too.

(Source: fuckyeahmcrquotes)

Open up your heart. You might get hurt along the way because it’s a fact of life that bad people exist, but eventually you’ll find at least one true friend who will make it all worth it.

As I’ve said before: It’s okay to be you. It’s okay to be weird.

Other people’s opinion of you shouldn’t matter. Don’t miss out on opportunities to do things you love just because you don’t want other people saying mean things about you.

It’s your life and your time, and it’s YOU who has to live with the consequences of your decisions so make them for yourself. You should always strive to make yourself happy over all others.

(Source: fuckyeahgerardquotes)

The fine print on the above quote is that you should also be able to differentiate when people are just giving you shit to bring you down, or if people who actually care about you are trying to give you advice to be a better person. You don’t give your friends the middle finger. You work on issues together. Sometimes it can hurt to hear what you’ve been doing wrong, but real friends stab each other at the front, and with the best and purest of intentions.

You will find people out there who will love you for who you are. They will accept your imperfections, your shortcomings, your mistakes.

Be yourself and be kind. Things will get better. They did for us, and they can for you.

Some people seem to see me and my friends as a group of happy-go-lucky miscreants without a care in the world.

But I think the reason my friends are so kind, and the reason we embrace having fun so much is that we know all too well what it’s like to be hurt, and what it’s like to be depressed. We’ve been there. Some of us are still dealing with it. Our lives are far from perfect, we’re still human and make our share of mistakes, and we continue to work on ourselves one day at a time. Life doesn’t have to be perfect for it to be beautiful.

And the reason I share the things we do with you guys is to remind you to laugh, and to give hope to those who need it that you can make things better.

A lot of you have come to know me through my dA account, and through my dA journal posts particularly. One of the reasons I started blogging was just to remind myself of the things I have to be thankful for — the wonderful people in my life, and how much our silly adventures make me smile and laugh, and how they make life worth living. I needed that to look back on whenever I’d feel teetering on the edge of depression. Something that came as an unexpected blessing was how I received letters from people saying how somehow I had saved them. That my friends and I had given them something to believe in.

To hear that is more than I could have ever hoped to get in return for blogging. On behalf of my friends, I’d also like to say THANK YOU to you guys who have stuck with us and believed in us and inspired us to be better human beings. Your faith means more to us than you know.

(Source: fuckyeahgerardquotes)

If you think I might be able to help you with something related to this post, send me a message. (You can ask anonymously, or I can answer privately if you request it.) It takes me a while to reply sometimes, but I will do my best.

For what it’s worth, I’m here for you.

xoxo

Jin

I’m not kidding when I say that this band was the only thing that stopped me from working up a scarred body and put an end to my suicide wishes. They didn’t only do that, but inspired me to pursue my wishes as well.
After I moved to another town, I was so lonely and depressed and didn’t really have anything else but telephones, computers and music. I hated myself so much, but through My Chem, I learned how to love myself again.
Things have gotten way better, but it took such a long time for me to actually feel OK with myself and my life.

Posted on 31 January 2012
Tags: #my chemical romance #My Chem